Summer brings a lot of things—popsicles, late bedtimes, and for some families… the divide. One kid is headed off to camp, bursting with independence (and labeled clothing), while the other is home with you, staring you down like, “Okay, what’s next, lady?”
If you’re in this boat, know this: it’s a beautiful, bittersweet juggling act. It’s about cheering one child on as they gain confidence in the world while making the days at home feel just as exciting (and manageable) for the one left behind.
Sending One Off: The Confidence Boost (For You and Them)
Let’s be honest—watching your child go off to camp can tug at the heartstrings. They’re growing up. They’re making friends. They’re learning how to shower with flip-flops on. And you’re… crying in the car and triple-checking the camp’s photo gallery.
But here’s the thing: this is a gift. You’re giving them the chance to fly a little, to explore life with a bit more freedom, and to build confidence that will come home with them in unexpected ways. Camp may just be the first place they truly realize, “I can do this.”
So take a deep breath. You’ve done the hard part—raising a kid who’s brave enough to go.
The One Who Stays: Welcome to Camp Mommy
Back at home, things look a little different. Maybe your younger child doesn’t understand why their sibling is gone. Maybe they do understand and are soaking up every ounce of undivided attention they can get. Or maybe—like most kids—it’s a mix of giggles, meltdowns, snack demands, and magic moments.
This is Camp Mommy, and you get to write the rules.
You don’t need a rigid schedule or Pinterest-perfect activities. Think simple and special:
- Let them help plan “Camp Mommy” themes for each day (think pajama day, water day, baking day)
- Create little rituals—popsicles on the porch, reading together after lunch, mini adventures to the library or farmer’s market
- Lean into their interests. Dinosaurs? Crafts? Bug hunts? You’ve got this!
When the Tantrums Hit (Because They Will)
Not every day is going to be magical. Some days will involve epic meltdowns because you cut the sandwich wrong. That’s okay. Camp Mommy isn’t about perfection—it’s about connection.
Sometimes, just stopping to hold them through a tantrum and saying, “I know this feels big,” is more powerful than anything else. You’re teaching them how to feel, express, and rebound—and that’s just as valuable as whatever their sibling is learning at camp.
Savor the Split
This season is unique. You get to watch one child stretch their wings while grounding yourself in the presence of another. You’ll miss the chaos when they’re both home again (well… some of the chaos).
So here’s your permission to slow down, savor the moments, let go of the guilt, and fully step into the dual role of cheerleader and camp counselor.
One kid is discovering who they are out in the world.
The other is discovering how fun (and safe, and silly, and loving) home can be.
And you? You’re doing both beautifully.
PS: Looking for simple ways to keep the little one busy during Camp Mommy? Our Buggy Bags are packed with mess-free, screen-free fun perfect for this special one-on-one time. Less prep, more play, and a whole lot of memories. 💛