Move over, baby showers—there’s a new celebration in town that moms-to-be are actually asking for: the nesting party.
Rooted in practicality, support, and genuine connection, nesting parties are taking over Pinterest and parenting blogs for good reason. Instead of games and gift registries, these gatherings are about helping expectant moms prepare their homes—and minds—for baby. Think deep cleaning, organizing the nursery, prepping meals, and sharing advice, all in the company of people who care.
Here’s everything you need to know to host (or help plan) a nesting party that’s both meaningful and memorable.
What Is a Nesting Party?
A nesting party is a collaborative, hands-on alternative to the traditional baby shower. Rather than focusing solely on gifts, it emphasizes acts of service and preparation for the new arrival. Friends and family come together to:
- Organize baby clothes and gear
- Clean or sanitize the nursery and home
- Cook and freeze meals for the postpartum period
- Offer emotional support and shared wisdom
- Decorate or DIY baby projects
It’s about lightening the load—and reminding the mom-to-be that she’s not alone.
Why Nesting Parties Are Catching On
In a time when motherhood can feel overwhelming and isolating, nesting parties offer something more authentic:
- They’re useful. Many new moms already have the gear they need; what they really need is help getting ready.
- They’re intimate. Smaller guest lists create more space for connection.
- They reduce stress. Instead of having to “host” a shower, moms feel supported.
- They’re flexible. Every nesting party can be tailored to the mom’s needs and energy.
How to Plan a Nesting Party (Step-by-Step)
1. Talk With the Mom-to-Be
Start by asking what she needs most help with. It might be:
- Cleaning or organizing the baby’s room
- Building furniture or installing safety gear
- Preparing freezer meals
- Sorting baby clothes
- Mental/emotional support
She may prefer a chill afternoon with music and mocktails—or a power-cleaning session. Follow her lead.
2. Set the Guest List
Keep it small and supportive. Usually 4–10 people works best. These are friends or family members she feels safe being real with.
3. Create a Task List
Make a list of goals and divide them among guests. Some common ideas:
- “Assemble crib + changing table”
- “Sort and fold baby clothes by size”
- “Clean out fridge + stock with snacks”
- “Batch cook 5 postpartum-friendly meals”
- “Write affirmations for labor + postpartum”
You can even use a shared Google Doc or checklist app to organize.
4. Prep Supplies
Make sure you’ve got the basics:
- Cleaning supplies (non-toxic if possible)
- Storage bins or organizers
- Meal prep containers
- Labels, markers, and Sharpies
- Gloves or masks if anyone is immunocompromised
5. Make It Fun
Just because it’s practical doesn’t mean it can’t be joyful! Add:
- A cozy playlist or spa music
- Mocktails or a tea station
- Light snacks or baked goods
- A gratitude or advice jar for the mom-to-be
- Optional: group photo or Polaroids for memory keeping
Nesting Party Gift Ideas
If guests still want to bring something tangible, here are helpful options:
- Gift cards for grocery or food delivery
- Postpartum care items (padsicles, sitz bath, nipple balm)
- Subscription for meal kits or cleaning services
- Lactation cookies or herbal teas
- Books or audiobooks for new moms
Freezer Meal Ideas for Nesting Parties
Cooking is one of the most helpful tasks to do together. Choose recipes that are:
- Freezer-friendly
- Nutritious and filling
- Easy to heat with one hand
Ideas:
- Turkey and veggie chili
- Chicken and rice casserole
- Veggie-packed muffins or lactation cookies
- Smoothie packs
- Baked ziti or lasagna
Pro tip: Label everything with ingredients and reheating instructions!
Nesting parties are about showing up—really showing up—for moms. They’re about reminding her she’s supported, that she doesn’t have to do everything alone, and that preparing for baby doesn’t have to be overwhelming.
In a world of Instagram-perfect baby showers, a nesting party is a breath of fresh air. And honestly? We hope it becomes the new norm.