How to Transition Kids Back to School Sleep Schedules (Without Tears)

After summer’s late sunsets and “just one more” popsicles, switching to a school sleep schedule can be brutal. Here’s how to do it without meltdowns.

1. Start Early

  • Shift bedtime earlier by 15 minutes every 2–3 nights until you hit school bedtime.
  • I find it helps us if we say “5 more minutes, 4 more minutes, etc.”  I even make sure they acknowledge it so we are all on the same page.  I notice this helps transition time for them a lot more.

2. Create a Wind-Down Ritual

  • Bath, books, and dim lights signal the brain it’s time to sleep.
  • When they are having their dessert, I like to sneak up to their rooms and turn off the lights, turn on the sound machine, turn on the nightlight, etc.  This way when they head up there - it’s already in “sleep mode.”

3. Limit Screens Before Bed

  • Blue light delays melatonin. Swap devices for coloring, puzzles, or audiobooks.
  • I added little lights over their beds but a clip-on book light is great too.  I let them take 2 books to bed and give them 5-10 minutes of quiet time in their bunks.  They feel like big kids and then when I go in and turn the lights off, they are already pretty sleepy and it makes the transition so much easier.

4. Morning Light = Morning Energy

  • Open blinds right away to help reset their internal clock.  
  • If you have one of those sunlight clocks- this is also super helpful and you can set the light to be a “morning light” or “glow” to help them feel more calm when waking up.

5. Make It Cozy

  • Let them pick new pajamas or a special blanket for the new school year.
  • We love our “quillows” from Krista Horton - it is a blanket that folds into itself and is a pillow that also has straps for a backpack.  We take these EVERYWHERE - from the car to the boat to the couch, they are THE BEST cozy accessory.

💡 Buggy Box Co. Tie-In: Keep a Buggy Bag craft or coloring page for those pre-bed quiet moments instead of TV — it’s the perfect calming activity.

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